Silence is one of the most vital act that people should use as a powerful tool to focus deeply on any complex issue. Being silence does not mean that you don't know about anything. But it indicates that you are a great listener and engage in deep thinking at the same time. Silence improves our thinking pattern and plans whereas a talkative person wastes a lot of time in gossiping with others. Additionally, it improves determination to achieve our goals. A silent person thinks more deeply about his ultimate targets and makes strategies to achieve them. In contrast, expressing persons are engaged to talk with other most of the time. Moreover, It is very difficult to understand the philosophy and plan of a silent person as they do not share their plans or philosophy easily with anyone. The silent person can understand the philosophy and ideas of others and make a new road map from those ideas.
I don't like to talk without any specific purpose in my life time and most people may consider the behavior as a psychological problem. I was told the thing by many relatives at past. I never took their words seriously and never tried to improve at all. However, I would like to act various characters and talkative person is one of my character that I play in my real life. I have found that I become too much expressive now-a-days. The phenomenon is not bad though it does not align with my mission and vision. I found some observations about expressive persons.
Why do people like to gossip?
In general, talking is not brain storming at all. People especially talkative persons mostly discuss or share stories of their life. Feeling rewarding to express my stories towards others is common due to two reasons.
Additionally, I believe that everyone is hero in his own world and everyone say anything in his own perspective. Because of the assumption, everyone expressed a life story centering himself or herself. So, it is commonly rewarding for them to provide information about a specific incident when he or she plays a central role like a protagonist.
Moreover, human being is very lazy when it comes to use brain. Definitely, Brain works for recalling the memory and communication for
those activities. Nevertheless, Brain is not used for analyzing any
complex thing. People feel relaxed without utilizing analytic part of the brain. For that fact, gossiping is a pleasure activity for most people.
Benefits
I found few things in which majority of observations has negative impact in my life and few things go with my favor. The first positive things is that I got a plenty of ideas from others and their perspective about various matters. Thus, My knowledge was enriched with those ideas and philosophies. I got many ideas to solve problems as well.
Most of the issues loose its complexity with passing time. As a result, remaining silent is the wise decision during that period.
I was a determined person in order to hiding my actual plan and long term vision once. It helped me a lot for achieving many targets in my life. I found out solution for any unwanted issue with the help of silence and patience.
Drawbacks
However, the talkative nature created many serious issues. I started loosing my focus on any matter due to expressing my opinion in term of sayings. It takes a plenty amount of time to chitchat with others and those time period would be used to generate ideas or to do something for future. Revealing ideas is another problem which is almost impossible for a chatty to prevent. The major challenge is that talkative nature spoils future surprises. For-example: I plan to learn a skill and have a strategy to follow it. Somehow, I start expressing my plan to everyone. The intensity to do the activity does not remain same for my case after expressing my future target.
Once my father said to me that saying any information to other maned you selling precious words and listening to others was an activity of buying precious words from the speaker. He added that you should have been a buyer rather that a seller in order to remaining in the wise side.
Finally, I am on the way of becoming a determined person again in case of silence.
