Tuesday, April 3, 2018

There is always a confusion in life about far and near things.

Near objectives can be closely observed. We can easily identify good and bad characteristics in it but we try to figure out the negative aspects rather than the positive aspects. Especially I who never consider the positive one and always try to figure out all the possible negative scenarios. Planning to defend these situations becomes a habit. More than 98% plans remains unexecuted because these situations rarely happens. There is still some Occasions in which I execute my plans.

Similarly we assume about the far things which can not be observed closely. Many data are just assumptions. But our mind always find the possible positive things in it. Our mind always set up positive for the  things which are far away from us. We think rarely about the negative sides of far things. 

Thinking about negative sides or thinking about positive sides don't matter. In fact, one should think about both sides in order to taking steps to make a better situation. But only taking positive sides from one and only taking negative sides from another make a wrong assumption for sure.

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

I have visited International Trade Fair with my Wife today. It is first time that I visit there with her. A small traveling may grant a huge set of happiness. Life goes with its own speed. Maybe we are engaged with many activities but we should not ignore about other important matters. Sometimes many habits that I have adopted come to our life after a regular interval. Old habits are replaced by many new habits. It’s human behavior.

What are other important matters??

Habits that don’t change or are not replaced by new habits are other important matter. Basically other important matters are the actual things of life. Things that we don’t want to leave bring real happiness to us.  Those become a part of life.

Being busy is not a bad habit if we maintain all the matter smoothly. The real happiness is found in small segments. Small segment bring small happiness and those small happiness will turn a mega happiness of life for sure. We often sacrifice those segments in order to getting mega thing directly. But things that we got directly may leave us directly. But mega thing is defined variously by each person.