Saturday, February 05, 2022 (I am weird)

Sometimes self actualization is needed to determine our way. I have been recognizing my self for few days and I found that I am weird. "Weird" is the perfect word to describe myself.

I am weird for the society as I ignore or don't believe in many existing society outlooks. A society consists of people. People have similar thoughts and beliefs in a society. People always want that others follow their path 

I always avoid following the ongoing social trends. I believe that combined idea or integrated idea is not always a right thing. So, I am weird fir the society. 

Wednesday, October 13, 2021 (Random)

Sometimes I forget everything even my best qualities. I know it is very difficult to maintain a stability in all the sectors as focusing all the sectors is not possible. 

There is a gap of one and half month between today and my last blog. There were many things that happened in between time period. There are small success and there are some failures as well. 

I believe that I enjoy my failure period more than my success. When I fail or I do a mistake, I learn many things. The period of learning never ends and when it ends, you must consider yourself as death. 

I got some small success in my new profession though it was very tiny. But a success is an occasion of success for me even though it is tiny. 

Few days ago, I saw some beautiful scenario while crossing the river. I found that the winner is very near. 

I don't know why I remember 2007, 2008, 2009 and 2010. I think I am getting older now. It may be one of the main reason. But still I feel that I am stuck in 2009-10. 

That's all for today. :) 

Wednesday, August 26, 2020 (life continues)

It doesn't matter how bad scenario someone is facing. The life continues and goes on. Sometimes, it is quite impossible to know about your situation by your nearby people. Life is like a house of cards where everything is quite uncertain. No one knows what uncertain situation will arrive in upcoming future. We can plan for future with strong prediction and plan may be supported by alternatives. But future is still uncertain. 

Whatever problems I am facing are completely my matter. I don't want to share it as I don't want to keep it myself. Once I didn't like to getting pain. Then getting pain became a habit and now it becomes an addiction. 

Still I believe and strengthen my mind to overcome each and every situation. After a long period of time, my heart is actually broken by some incidents. It doesn't matter because the life continues. 😇😇😇

Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Life is very complicated in my case but every is okay. One of the two scenarios may be  here. Firstly, everything is actually okay but I am just overthinking every single fact. Secondly, everything seems to be okay but somethings are seriously worst in the life.

I think too much negative for myself as I expect less for myself. Expecting less is not my weakness but it is my one of the best quality. Because it gives me satisfaction with every small achievement. Failure is also a reason for me to celebrate due to learning from it.

I feel everything impossible when I see back. Because a single distraction may have changed my present greatly. I see everything nebulous when I see forward. I never see a clear image about my future because known fact never happens in the life. There are too much uncertainties for the certain events.

At the end of the day, uncertainty seems better and it surprises me. I always prefer uncertainty and surprises from life. 

Friday, December 06, 2019 (Time and Life)

I thought last day that the day would be big and relaxing. I got up at 10.00 Am and got ready to accomplish some tasks. I left home at 12.00 pm and hoped to return before 3.00 pm. But I reached home at 5.20 pm. The day is almost over in the blink of an eye. At the ending moment, I am thinking what I have done today. The answer is nothing significant. 

In case of life, the same role is applicable. When we realize about life, the half of life is over. Because school, college and university life end quickly than our expectation. Then we focus on career and are busy with achieving goals. After then, we realize the life is almost at the end and we did nothing is in life. For most of the cases, things like this happen.

Friday, November 29, 2019 (A Friday)

The value of a normal event is not recognized by people until the normal event becomes rare. People never care about things which are easily available. The biggest examples are that we need oxygen, Sunlight, rain and  more on to survive. But we never recognize it as a value thing.

Once I  didn't recognize the value of a Friday (weekend). It was quite common event and one kind of careless event for me. But I realized it's actual value after a while. When I didn't have scope to spend weekend, I realized the value of that day.

Right now, my outlook about a Friday changes and I know the importance of a Friday. Money or position does not bring happiness. Happiness hides in every nano particle in the universe. We can't easily see it as our expectation is something else. We just need to focus on it rather than to focus on other things.

Wednesday, September 18, 2019 (successful attempt and unsuccessful attempt)

All the attempts are not necessarily successful in the life. Some are successful and some are unsuccessful. We need both in order to making a balance in the society. Because one's successful attempt leads to another's unsuccessful attempt. And interrelated attempts must be balanced. For example: if there is a football match between two teams, one's victory means another's loosing. 

Similarly no one remember unsuccessful attempts in the life. Most of us try to forget our unsuccessful attempts in the same time. Some feel insulting to share unsuccessful attempts. Reality is that successful attempts can be forgotten but unsuccessful attempts must be remembered. To analyze the unsuccessful attempts, we find out our weakness which must be reduced. Similarly remembering unsuccessful attempts help us to avoid doing the same mistakes in future.

I often remember some of my successful attempts but I always remember almost all of my unsuccessful attempts in the life. It doesn't make me frustrated but it makes me prepare for future. I love to remember my unsuccessful attempts beacube it realizes me as tiny part of the universe. On the other hand, remaining successful attempts make me arrogant. 

Monday, August 12, 2019 (Life has no undo option)

I have seen a post “Life has no undo option” in my facebook new feeds.

It is a known fact for almost all of us. We hear this and often we say this to others. But we never try to explain it clearly. In fact, we never try to explain a matter. We just take everything lightly and have no curiosity to understand all the facts. Only exam forces us to explain any theory but life is the biggest exam. 

Life has no undo option. When a decision or move is executed, no one can reverse the move. In case of failure, we wish we were at that stage again and took the right decision. Practically it is not possible to reverse the time. Similarly, well-planned strategy may become unsuccessful. What should we do???? 

(we react like this and become frustrated)

I am a big fan of Marvel movies and I have watched all their movies. In a movie, called Dr. Strange, there is a time stone and the hero can see all the possible future results. Every result is just a possibility of happening a certain thing. We don’t have time and it is impossible to predict all the possibilities for us at the same time. But we can predict 2 possibilities at least. One is the most favorable situation and another one is the most unfavorable situation of executing an action. 

 (using time stone to see the possibilities)

To take an important decision, most of us only think about the positive result and never consider the negative result. We consider most favorable result & least favorable result and forget about most unfavorable and least unfavorable result. We should the rules of “work less and expect more” though we should follow the concept of “work more and expect less”. It is greatly recognized that people expect more than their capacity. It is the prime source of depression in life. 

 (Ofcourse we do not have time stone to predict 14,000,605 possibilities but still we can predict two outcomes of an important decision)

Once I was highly depressed for everything in my life but I am thankful to Allah for realizing me that life is something else than my assumption. My assumption was not right from my birth to 2017 and I have realized it after 2018. Every negative result can be converted into a positive result by processing it. In the history of human civilization, it happened many times. Microwave oven, Super glue, X-ray machine and more on were invented accidentally. In case of human history, some destructive wars made ways to explore more and more. If the Second World War did not happen, our knowledge about space would have been limited now. 

Finally, Life has no undo option but we can assume most probable possibilities of an important decision. Emotion is our main problem while taking a decision. If I evaluate all the possibilities, I will not say this in future.We must consider both favorable and unfavorable outcomes.

Tuesday, June 25, 2019 (Plan, Clash of clans)

Never consider your rival as weaker than you

Sometimes we consider that our enemy is less powerful or weaker than us. Basically historical data or statistically stated things show us. When we come to know it, we think about an easy victory. But a weaker side may surprise you with its strong and flexible plans. In the field of battle, a weak competitor may defeat you if you don’t have a proper plan. 

Today, we have a war in “Clash of clans” game in which our enemy is much more powerful than us. They thought that they would easily win the war. But we have our own plan. When we didn’t attack, they considered us an inactive clan. We just grabbed the opportunity of their belief. Our first attack has been executed before 42 min of ending. We knew we could get 12 stars at max but we planned to get more percentage. Things went according to our plan and we won the game with higher percentages. 

Similarly, celebration before victory makes a man blind because he is not ready for any unfavorable situation at that time. 

And I said "A strategy never fails fully when the strategy is supported by backup plans.
and Flexible decision with understanding the situation is a must in order to winning a war. "

 

Thursday, April 25, 2019

Life is a long way to go. In the way, there are many barriers and obstacles. Facing barriers and obstacles are natural events. Some of them are easy to overcome and some of them are hard to overcome. To overcome these, we need to plan, execute the plan and have some alternative plans with patience.

We can arrive at our destination as per plan. Whenever plan does not work, the next best available option must be used. The process may make the way longer but still it is executed in a systemic way.

In the whole process, we need to have patience. There are many obstacles that make us angry. Showing angriness without logic may turn the simple problem to complex problem. To control the angriness, we need patience. 

In our country, everything is quite opposite. Having patience is considered a weakness. I like to show angriness in a systemic way. In the systemic way, I make the person realize that he is wrong. And systemically he agrees that there is something wrong. Then I show a limited angriness. 

Patience was not naturally found in my character but I have developed it over the time. Having patience is not my weakness but it is my strength. Looking the world in a different angle is not a sin. Everyone has a different view to see the world.  

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

There is always a confusion in life about far and near things.

Near objectives can be closely observed. We can easily identify good and bad characteristics in it but we try to figure out the negative aspects rather than the positive aspects. Especially I who never consider the positive one and always try to figure out all the possible negative scenarios. Planning to defend these situations becomes a habit. More than 98% plans remains unexecuted because these situations rarely happens. There is still some Occasions in which I execute my plans.

Similarly we assume about the far things which can not be observed closely. Many data are just assumptions. But our mind always find the possible positive things in it. Our mind always set up positive for the  things which are far away from us. We think rarely about the negative sides of far things. 

Thinking about negative sides or thinking about positive sides don't matter. In fact, one should think about both sides in order to taking steps to make a better situation. But only taking positive sides from one and only taking negative sides from another make a wrong assumption for sure.

Sunday, January 08, 2017

This is life. Everyone has their own definition to describe it. Whenever I meet with new persons, I collect their philosophy about life. Most of us live it in hopes of getting a better future. Getting a better future means only earning money for most of them. So, the summery of life that I got from different people is to earn money. Actual meaning of life becomes something that I never consider. Money may allow us to fulfill our need but demand, needs and wants do not ensure peace. Those are able us to satisfy our tangible things. But real peace can not be brought by money. 

People invest (sacrifice) today in order to getting a better future. 

I have also invested but it is not my prime goal of life. Earning money must not be the prime goal of a person but most of us make it the prime goal. 

 I have been searching the prime goal of life. I got many ideas but none of those convinced me to adopt it. And who am I ?? I am the collector of their definitions.