Friday, March 15, 2019 (Visiting an old place in a new format)

I have visited my grand father’s house today. A place where my father was born, A place where all my brothers and sisters were born except me. I don’t remember when I visited that place last time. Maybe it is more than 15 years. Everything changes at that place. Nothing remains same. Basically only a few thing is just similar to it’s previous form.  

Everything changes with passing time. It takes either short time or long time only. Duration does not matter but changes happen for sure in everything in our life, society, nature and so on. Time changes everything. I have also recognized that my thinking is also changing. Persons who don’t change their style with the demand of time suffer a lot.

Friday, March 08, 2019 (Indiscipline)

It is not important to force someone to do everything by following discipline. It is his/her choice either to follow or not to follow the discipline. Everyone has a right to make his or her choice and we are no one to force him. The way that he/she selects to spend his/her life is his or her choice. We have nothing to do on this issue. 

Whenever Someone’s indiscipline behavior harms others, it is not tolerable at all. At that time, we must take steps to stop it. Basically one’s indiscipline behavior harms others greatly in case of society. But our society encourages those to do more and more indiscipline behavior. Because we have some benefits generated due to his indiscipline behavior. Infact they who always do everything (related with society) in a discipline way is considered idiots by the majority part of our society. In this case, Society says “you don’t understand the world or you are not smart enough”.

Last week, I had done a small journey from my house to a near destination. The journey takes a time of approximately 15 minutes but the road was under construction. There was an indiscipline behavior among drivers to block both sides of the road and passengers encouraged drivers to block the road. As a result, the journey of 15 minutes became a journey of more than one hour.

It is not the first time for me to suffer due to other’s indiscipline behavior. Similarly, it is not the last time for me to suffer due to other’s indiscipline behavior. Consequences of doing indiscipline behavior must be strickly implemented but our society does not promote the consequences in their own cases. So, It takes time to see a society which promotes disciplinary behavior.

Thursday, February 28, 2019 (power)

Sometimes, everything is clear and sure but we avoid answering the question. We show that minor effects are the reasons behind it while major effects are not discussed intentionally. We know the real reasons behind a phenomenon but we indicate other thing. 

Why does it happen ??

Because the real reason is so powerful that it can destroy you. Power is the sources of everything. If you have power, you are the unofficial king. 

Saturday, February 16, 2019 (A positve move toward your friend)

A positive move toward your enemy may make a friendship with your enemy.

Similarly no move toward a debatable relationship creates a cold war between 2 parties. Because he/she may feel that there is a angriness behind absent of communication. No movement also encourages your enemy to take some negative actions against you. So, it is better than taking a positive move rather than taking no move.  If there is only a conflict with a friend, no move will make him your enemy. 

There is a problem and the solution of that problem must be near by. The result is not achieved without finding the solution.

Thursday, January 31, 2019 (Last day of my first job)

Sometimes, It is very hard to describe own thoughts, feelings and achievement. Today is the last working day of my life job. I have been working here for 2 years and 6 months. There were many events of happiness, Sorrows, Proud and so on. Eventually right now I don’t remember any worrying part. But all the delighted moments are reflecting in my mind. It was nothing but a part of life. A journey of 2.5 years has everything. 

Now and then there were happiness and pain. At the end of journey, I feel that leaving a part of life is harder than entering a new part of life. I don’t have any emotions for a new place while entering in the place. On the other hand, I have some emotions while leaving an old place.

Colleagues become friends. All the colleagues are like my brothers. Often there were some arguments that may have been severe. But everything seemed normal among us at the end of the day. The day reminded me the day where I had joined here. I was nervous and I have fear of unknown. 

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But time turned every fear into an excitement. I tried my best to bring something for the organization, colleagues and people surrounding me. As a human being, I have some limitations and I will try to overcome it in future. 

Friday, December 28, 2018 (Fear and Confidence)

Only a few hours are remaining now to end another year. Another year has been over from life but it is not possible end of life. There is still a long way to go. There were many life changing events happened in this year and there are still many things happening in the future. 

Almost every year, life teaches me many things. On the conclusion, I have recognized that only having proper plans are not good enough. To execute a proper plan, we need to overcome fear. A villain comes to our door to stop taking an adverse but wise decision. 

The villain is the fear here. The villain is super strong and capable to spread darkness. He can change your mind and destroy your plans by reflecting all the possible negative sides. But there is a hero to defeat the villain. Villain will be leading until the end.

Confidence is the hero in this case. Hero is not as strong as the villain. Hero is like medicine that works slowly but works. On the other hand, the villain is like poison that works faster but also fell down quickly. Hero will be facing problems until the end.

The hero will defeat the villain for sure if the hero is alive until the end. So, we just need to make sure that hero is alive. Otherwise, it will be impossible to take an adverse decision. 

Saturday, December 22, 2018

When you are in the darkest side of a planet, it  doesn't matter where to go. Because a move in left or right axis will help you to reduce the darkness.

If the planet is tightly like locked by it's star, you will have to move one way for sure. Otherwise, you stay here waiting to see the light in form of morning but the morning will never appear. If the planet is not tightly locked by it's star, you need to stay & wait for the morning unless you are in the polar.

Similarly, when you are staying in the worst part of life, any move will help you to reduce the struggle. There is also a condition that you have to identify the actual situation. Many people have alternatives that make their way shorten just like not being tightly locked planet. And some of them don't have supports of others to make their way smooth just like tightly locked planet.

I have recognized that I am staying in the worst part of a tightly lo. Everything is quite dark and there is no lights. But I know the era of darkness Will definitely end. It may take time a little more than the normal one. Due to remaining in the tightly locked planet, I have to move myself in a hard way. But the light will arrive for sure. 

Monday, December 17, 2018

We take risk in many occasions but people try to avoid risk in case of life. Here they play a safe game most of the time. Because any wrong step will make their way harder. So, it is a wise choice to remain in the safe side.

There are many persons who love to take in case of life as well. Those are not too much wise persons in the eyes of the educated persons. Educated persons think that those don't have proper knowledge about anything. But the reality is that those unwise persons lead them.

Educated persons are very conscious About life after knowing the concept of risk and return. On the other hand, those who don't know about risk and return take decision independently.

Sunday, November 25, 2018 (action and reaction)

There are always some persons who become very happy for someone exiting from a place. Similarly there are always some persons who become very sad for someone exiting from a place.  Basically persons liking you without any benefit become sad at that moment and persons associated with you for some benefits become happy. There are some opportunistics who get benefited in your absence. They just play their own game.

I Know what they try to show me. I show everything inside you but the point is that I don't care. Just be happy with your place, position and upcoming rewards.

I know those who say against my decision loves me without benefits. But wrong decision is also a part of life. though wrong decision is the way to explore the next opportunity, no decision is wrong ultimately. 

Monday, November 19, 2018

Everything takes speed. My life is becoming faster and I am scared of traveling in high speed.

The fear of spending whole life over few days worries me. Those few days don't mean only a specific days. But it indicates the whole lifetime. The duration of a life is long enough. But this long duration seems very short when someone lives in week or month. If someone feel every moment of life, he/she will live it more than expected one. For this, it is needed to stop for a while and feel everything.

Sunday, October 28, 2018 (Goals and Objectives)

There was a racer who aimed at finishing his race with proper paperwork and planning. There were several objectives to reach in his goal. He recognized that he had completed an objective (a certain distance) in a wrong racing truck. But he pretended that he was in right truck and again planned to reach the next level with new racing truck. He drove fast and achieved the next objective where he again recognized it a wrong and completely new truck. Though it was a wrong truck, he again pretended to be a right truck. The event happened again and again and every time he pretended to be right. After reaching the finishing line, the racer knew that the achievement was unexpected and undesirable but still it was an achievement. So, he tried to make objectives to prove that his achievement was expected and desirable. For this, he worked whole day to make a perfect story. And he had done his job well. But he understood that the day is over and he was busy only to convert a wrong thing into a right thing. He was neither happy nor celebrated his victory.

There are few ultimate goals that almost everyone sets to achieve in the lifetime.

People set their goals and complete objectives to accomplish the goals. After then we achieve their goals. That process is normal and generally people achieve their goals by doing so.

In my case, I take time to set goals. After setting my goals, I am engaged to accomplish objectives one by one. Just before the finishing line, I find out that the racing track is changed but I still achieve a goal which is undesirable and unwanted for me. I try to adjust evreveryth according to the requirements of unwanted goal. I create Objectives and accomplish them to fill up the gaps between plan and goal.

But life is not very small. It is larger than our expectation. Holding wrong thing as pretending right thing will not be the best option in that large life for sure.

Thursday, October 11, 2018 (visible)

Everything is becoming so close that the invisible matters are also visible now. The escape velocity is achieved to overcome the gravititional force of the star. And it's time to travel interstellar space and it will be the darkest place for sure. There will be a long way to go to reach the next star. The way may be totally dark, maybe a deep black ocean. But this deep black ocean seems better than to remain in the gravititional force of the star.

Sometimes it is better to leave rather than to remain. The next path will be the toughest to conquer but loosing without any attempt arises questions. These questions will remain unanswered and only assumption will be made.