Showing posts with label Angriness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Angriness. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Wednesday, December 30, 2020 (Too much loudness)

Becoming angry is a common intense emotional state found in all living beings. Expressing it is not a big deal at all. We must understand to whom it is expressed. 

It is almost impossible for me to digest anyone's anger without a reason. I can understand the situation when I have done a mistake. I don't have any issue to hear any rough thing due to my mistakes. Digesting rough behavior without my fault is the worst scenario for me. I simply avoid those whenever anyone tries to show his anger with me without any logic. 


Now it is a scenario like a little object in a solar system achieving escape velocity due to the gravity of a gigantic object. 

Monday, July 1, 2019

Monday, July 01, 2019 (Short temper)




Drop by drop water creates an ocean after a course of time.


There are 2 types of people existing in the world.


First one is the person who becomes angry quickly and reacts as soon as possible. People call them short temper. Basically people try to avoid any debate or unfavorable saying with them because they may brawl on them. The reasons behind short temper are many including power, position, environment, stress, personality, financial problems, level of education, eating habit and more on. Infact, I have to read a book about short temper to better understand the topic ;). Short temper persons don’t think too much but they need scope to temp. There is a weakness of having it that the person releases all his emotions with his words. That means that his anger becomes low even zero after releasing it. They don’t remember anything about their angriness.



Second one is the person who becomes angry but don’t react very soon. They think and rethink before reacting in an incident. Sometimes they become very angry without any reaction. Basically they consider two things. At first, it is not right time to react. They seek right opportunity to give the proper answer. Secondly, they are inspired by those. They remember those things and take effective measures to avoid future incidents. They will react on right time with right sample.


Basically I respect both of them. Our society has both personalities. But number of short tempers has much more higher than number of cool tempered persons. Everyone tries to make debate for almost everything without using logic. When I use logic, they indicate social norms. When I point out specific social norm, they start talking about other subjects.

I am the second one who becomes angry but don’t react immediately. I remember everything to give an answer on right time with right manner. People think that I don’t understand anything because I don’t react.

Thursday, April 25, 2019

Thursday, April 25, 2019


Life is a long way to go. In the way, there are many barriers and obstacles. Facing barriers and obstacles are natural events. Some of them are easy to overcome and some of them are hard to overcome. To overcome these, we need to plan, execute the plan and have some alternative plans with patience.

We can arrive at our destination as per plan. Whenever plan does not work, the next best available option must be used. The process may make the way longer but still it is executed in a systemic way.
In the whole process, we need to have patience. There are many obstacles that make us angry. Showing angriness without logic may turn the simple problem to complex problem. To control the angriness, we need patience. 

In our country, everything is quite opposite. Having patience is considered a weakness. I like to show angriness in a systemic way. In the systemic way, I make the person realize that he is wrong. And systemically he agrees that there is something wrong. Then I show a limited angriness. 

Patience was not naturally found in my character but I have developed it over the time. Having patience is not my weakness but it is my strength. Looking the world in a different angle is not a sin. Everyone has a different view to see the world.