Tuesday, April 30, 2019 (Searching for food, A new habit)

I am getting addicted to having foods now-a-days. My philosophy in this case is that there is nothing left in the life expect foods. Basically I was used to avoiding having foods. In other words, I did not have any interest in foods in past. 

But there was a time 2012 when a teacher, Imad sir taking class on IT-1, gave suggestion to us to spend money in foods rather than in other things. In fact, I noted some suggestion or good words from every teacher which I will show someday. After then I try to spend more money in foods rather than other things. And it is in highest point now. 

I am engaged in searching better dishes. Every time I see something interesting then I send it to my wife. In fact, we have visited various places in my few months. I also follow some food reviewing channels in Youtube.

Thursday, April 25, 2019

Life is a long way to go. In the way, there are many barriers and obstacles. Facing barriers and obstacles are natural events. Some of them are easy to overcome and some of them are hard to overcome. To overcome these, we need to plan, execute the plan and have some alternative plans with patience.

We can arrive at our destination as per plan. Whenever plan does not work, the next best available option must be used. The process may make the way longer but still it is executed in a systemic way.

In the whole process, we need to have patience. There are many obstacles that make us angry. Showing angriness without logic may turn the simple problem to complex problem. To control the angriness, we need patience. 

In our country, everything is quite opposite. Having patience is considered a weakness. I like to show angriness in a systemic way. In the systemic way, I make the person realize that he is wrong. And systemically he agrees that there is something wrong. Then I show a limited angriness. 

Patience was not naturally found in my character but I have developed it over the time. Having patience is not my weakness but it is my strength. Looking the world in a different angle is not a sin. Everyone has a different view to see the world.  

Wednesday, April 17, 2019 (Habit)

From a few days, I started thinking about habits. 
 

Basically what is a habit?

A habit is a daily activity that is hard to give up. We easily get habits of many things. Infact I started reading a book named “Power of Habit” that I have not finished yet. But I am learning many things. In this book, it is written that there are 3 components of a habit. Those are

• Clue: Trigger to remember the habit.
• Routine: To observe the activity.
• Reward: Getting Benefit in form of getting satisfaction for the completion of activity.

We can change a habit with another one (activity) if the clue and reward are same. Basically we consider 2 types of habits. One is good habit and other is bad habit.

In case of a good habit, it is very hard to be adopted most of the time in the first place. In the second place, it will not last longer. It means “It is hard to get but easy to lose”.

On the other hand, we easily adopt habits easily & quickly which are bad for us. But leaving those habits are real task. So, it is very easy to adopt but hard to leave.

Basically having bad habits are not bad until your bad habits start dominating against your good habits. Sometimes, new bad habits can replace the good one. Any habit that destroys the good habit must be ignored.

I have noticed that my bad habits are dominating against good habits. As a result, good habits are losing its place. So, there is a place to think and rethink for identifying the right one. Just remembering a previous good habit is not an ideal task but thinking how to regain it is a real task.

Thursday, April 4, 2019

People think that their own work is very important even though it is very tiny. Their works maybe important for them but conflicting with other's work becomes a cause of problem. And long term benefits will be disappeared due to their unethical behavior.

I have a fear of being dominated by others. But things are going to be critical now. The high time will arrive sooner to take decision. 

Similarly I have been seeing for a while that everyone tries to increase or add problems. Is it irresponsible behavior or negligence of duty??? 

I don't know and I don't want to know. Whenever I say "I don't know and I don't want to know", it means that I know everything clearly but don't want to blame the liable person. 

Friday, March 22, 2019 (Final Settlement)

“All the payments are received by me from Unmesh. There is nothing left from Unmesh.”

Today, I have taken everything from my first and last (until now) work place. There is nothing left related with that place. But nothing is empty. Every place consists of some matters. If we see the sky in night, we see too much dark place. We can easily recognize that there is nothing in the dark place. Reality is that those places consist of dark matters and it is also scientifically proved. We cannot see the dark matter but we can recognize that there is a power which has an influence on others. Similarly, when we have settled some things, the thing is over for us. But there is some power that influences our activities. The influencing factor is our memory. It preserves everything that is done or happened by us or around us. Everything is settled but my memory reflects those working days. I have bad memories in my last working place but now my brain reads and reflects only the delighted moments. I have become emotional at the end of the process. As senior colleague and Brother, Razon vai was very much closed to me. And I shared many thoughts and opitions with him that I did not share with others.

It is true for me that left place reminds me only delighted moments, not worst moments.

Friday, March 15, 2019 (Visiting an old place in a new format)

I have visited my grand father’s house today. A place where my father was born, A place where all my brothers and sisters were born except me. I don’t remember when I visited that place last time. Maybe it is more than 15 years. Everything changes at that place. Nothing remains same. Basically only a few thing is just similar to it’s previous form.  

Everything changes with passing time. It takes either short time or long time only. Duration does not matter but changes happen for sure in everything in our life, society, nature and so on. Time changes everything. I have also recognized that my thinking is also changing. Persons who don’t change their style with the demand of time suffer a lot.

Friday, March 08, 2019 (Indiscipline)

It is not important to force someone to do everything by following discipline. It is his/her choice either to follow or not to follow the discipline. Everyone has a right to make his or her choice and we are no one to force him. The way that he/she selects to spend his/her life is his or her choice. We have nothing to do on this issue. 

Whenever Someone’s indiscipline behavior harms others, it is not tolerable at all. At that time, we must take steps to stop it. Basically one’s indiscipline behavior harms others greatly in case of society. But our society encourages those to do more and more indiscipline behavior. Because we have some benefits generated due to his indiscipline behavior. Infact they who always do everything (related with society) in a discipline way is considered idiots by the majority part of our society. In this case, Society says “you don’t understand the world or you are not smart enough”.

Last week, I had done a small journey from my house to a near destination. The journey takes a time of approximately 15 minutes but the road was under construction. There was an indiscipline behavior among drivers to block both sides of the road and passengers encouraged drivers to block the road. As a result, the journey of 15 minutes became a journey of more than one hour.

It is not the first time for me to suffer due to other’s indiscipline behavior. Similarly, it is not the last time for me to suffer due to other’s indiscipline behavior. Consequences of doing indiscipline behavior must be strickly implemented but our society does not promote the consequences in their own cases. So, It takes time to see a society which promotes disciplinary behavior.

Thursday, February 28, 2019 (power)

Sometimes, everything is clear and sure but we avoid answering the question. We show that minor effects are the reasons behind it while major effects are not discussed intentionally. We know the real reasons behind a phenomenon but we indicate other thing. 

Why does it happen ??

Because the real reason is so powerful that it can destroy you. Power is the sources of everything. If you have power, you are the unofficial king. 

Saturday, February 16, 2019 (A positve move toward your friend)

A positive move toward your enemy may make a friendship with your enemy.

Similarly no move toward a debatable relationship creates a cold war between 2 parties. Because he/she may feel that there is a angriness behind absent of communication. No movement also encourages your enemy to take some negative actions against you. So, it is better than taking a positive move rather than taking no move.  If there is only a conflict with a friend, no move will make him your enemy. 

There is a problem and the solution of that problem must be near by. The result is not achieved without finding the solution.