Saturday, May 25, 2019

Opportunity comes to everyone. But no one can accurately estimate the exact time of arriving it. The opportunities may come back to our door after a regular interval. People think that there will be a better opportunity than the existing one. Everyone expects and predicts his or her position. But Reality is something else. There is a conflict between our expectation and reality.

From few months, I talked with many persons and Understood their way of seeing the world and thinking. The more I know about their perception, the more I realize their point of views. Basically, all things depend on expectation of human being. Similarly

“The higher expectation leads the higher chance of being frustrated.”

It does not mean that one should not expect higher one. If you can afford the higher one, you can expect it.

I received at least 10/12 interview calls in last 4 months but I have not attended any. The reason behind it is not expectation but it is a part of my strategy. A plan will be successful when it is covered with alternative plans.

“When opportunity knocks our door and it sounds very loud. Then we must open the door and grab the opportunity. Because the opportunity may not stay longer in the door or will not come back again.”

Saturday, May 18, 2019 (A sleepless day)

I have got up today at 1 am. Last day was the most uncomfortable fasting. There were some situations for which it was tough.

At first, I didn’t have a sound sleep. I slept less than 1 hour. Basically I slept around 2 am and got up around 3 am for having my Sehri. After Sehri, I could not sleep. I tried but my attempt was not working. I had a class at 9 am. So there is no scope for sleep rest of the day. 

Secondly, I had an odd class-schedule on Friday. There were 2 classes in which one was from 9 am to 11 am and another was from 2.30 pm to 4.30 pm. The gap time between classes was not useful because there was a 2 hours needed to travel from university to home to university.

Thirdly, the weather was quite hot and unsuitable at all. So, anyone became tired in doing small tasks.

Fourthly, I visited some places in the gap time with my wife. 

Less sleep was the main reason behind feeling worst. I felt like energy less person, brain less and focus less.

Tuesday, April 30, 2019 (Searching for food, A new habit)

I am getting addicted to having foods now-a-days. My philosophy in this case is that there is nothing left in the life expect foods. Basically I was used to avoiding having foods. In other words, I did not have any interest in foods in past. 

But there was a time 2012 when a teacher, Imad sir taking class on IT-1, gave suggestion to us to spend money in foods rather than in other things. In fact, I noted some suggestion or good words from every teacher which I will show someday. After then I try to spend more money in foods rather than other things. And it is in highest point now. 

I am engaged in searching better dishes. Every time I see something interesting then I send it to my wife. In fact, we have visited various places in my few months. I also follow some food reviewing channels in Youtube.

Thursday, April 25, 2019

Life is a long way to go. In the way, there are many barriers and obstacles. Facing barriers and obstacles are natural events. Some of them are easy to overcome and some of them are hard to overcome. To overcome these, we need to plan, execute the plan and have some alternative plans with patience.

We can arrive at our destination as per plan. Whenever plan does not work, the next best available option must be used. The process may make the way longer but still it is executed in a systemic way.

In the whole process, we need to have patience. There are many obstacles that make us angry. Showing angriness without logic may turn the simple problem to complex problem. To control the angriness, we need patience. 

In our country, everything is quite opposite. Having patience is considered a weakness. I like to show angriness in a systemic way. In the systemic way, I make the person realize that he is wrong. And systemically he agrees that there is something wrong. Then I show a limited angriness. 

Patience was not naturally found in my character but I have developed it over the time. Having patience is not my weakness but it is my strength. Looking the world in a different angle is not a sin. Everyone has a different view to see the world.  

Wednesday, April 17, 2019 (Habit)

From a few days, I started thinking about habits. 
 

Basically what is a habit?

A habit is a daily activity that is hard to give up. We easily get habits of many things. Infact I started reading a book named “Power of Habit” that I have not finished yet. But I am learning many things. In this book, it is written that there are 3 components of a habit. Those are

• Clue: Trigger to remember the habit.
• Routine: To observe the activity.
• Reward: Getting Benefit in form of getting satisfaction for the completion of activity.

We can change a habit with another one (activity) if the clue and reward are same. Basically we consider 2 types of habits. One is good habit and other is bad habit.

In case of a good habit, it is very hard to be adopted most of the time in the first place. In the second place, it will not last longer. It means “It is hard to get but easy to lose”.

On the other hand, we easily adopt habits easily & quickly which are bad for us. But leaving those habits are real task. So, it is very easy to adopt but hard to leave.

Basically having bad habits are not bad until your bad habits start dominating against your good habits. Sometimes, new bad habits can replace the good one. Any habit that destroys the good habit must be ignored.

I have noticed that my bad habits are dominating against good habits. As a result, good habits are losing its place. So, there is a place to think and rethink for identifying the right one. Just remembering a previous good habit is not an ideal task but thinking how to regain it is a real task.

Thursday, April 4, 2019

People think that their own work is very important even though it is very tiny. Their works maybe important for them but conflicting with other's work becomes a cause of problem. And long term benefits will be disappeared due to their unethical behavior.

I have a fear of being dominated by others. But things are going to be critical now. The high time will arrive sooner to take decision. 

Similarly I have been seeing for a while that everyone tries to increase or add problems. Is it irresponsible behavior or negligence of duty??? 

I don't know and I don't want to know. Whenever I say "I don't know and I don't want to know", it means that I know everything clearly but don't want to blame the liable person. 

Friday, March 22, 2019 (Final Settlement)

“All the payments are received by me from Unmesh. There is nothing left from Unmesh.”

Today, I have taken everything from my first and last (until now) work place. There is nothing left related with that place. But nothing is empty. Every place consists of some matters. If we see the sky in night, we see too much dark place. We can easily recognize that there is nothing in the dark place. Reality is that those places consist of dark matters and it is also scientifically proved. We cannot see the dark matter but we can recognize that there is a power which has an influence on others. Similarly, when we have settled some things, the thing is over for us. But there is some power that influences our activities. The influencing factor is our memory. It preserves everything that is done or happened by us or around us. Everything is settled but my memory reflects those working days. I have bad memories in my last working place but now my brain reads and reflects only the delighted moments. I have become emotional at the end of the process. As senior colleague and Brother, Razon vai was very much closed to me. And I shared many thoughts and opitions with him that I did not share with others.

It is true for me that left place reminds me only delighted moments, not worst moments.