Wednesday, July 31, 2019 (Missing)

I was quite perturbed last day. There was nothing special on the day. Things were same and things are still same. Only one thing never comes back. The biggest life line was out of reach. 

I know whatever you imposed on me and I considered it as good. It was actually good for me. I also know whatever you imposed on me and I considered it as bad. It was also good for me but only I could not see it at that time. In both cases, there was a win and win situation for me. 

Reality is that men die but his memories never die. His activities, behavior, philosophies, saying, suggestions, and more on are reflected on the mind of closed persons. Especially when there is no hope to communicate with him again, it really gives pain. A pain that does not have a look but it burn slowly and steadily from inside. 

People who can carry loudly in an adverse event are very lucky. They can release their pains immediately by carrying loudly. I am the wretched person who does not have this quality. And I carry pain for a long period of time. But I like it as I still feel the same way. 

I never share my philosophies with you. It is too late to say anything. Still I believe that you are with me like a shadow and I can feel you often. There are many things to say, share, express and more on.

Sunday, July 28, 2019 (Rumors)

Rumors are widely spread in our society. Now-a-days an epic rumor has broken down in Bangladesh. People are so afraid that they can even kill someone. And they have already killed many only for suspicious behavior. They don’t know what they want. When someone becomes senseless, he/she is no longer a human being. There is no different between an animal and a brainless person. 

Here few points must be noted to understand the whole thing:

• We don’t use our thinking capacity when someone says any odd thing confidently. Most of the human beings believe that a confident person talks only the truth. Reality is that pure liars also are confident with their false. From my point of view, it is a weakness to believe any odd thing without using logic.

• When majority people believe on rumors, we intend to believe the same thing. It is our belief that such huge number of people do not believe on wrong thing. During my BBA life, I saw majority students took wrong decision in a unit. Reality is that very few unities are made for the welfare and most of the unities are made to achieve specific benefits to a specific group.

• Saying changes while the information transferring from one person to another person. For-example: I say to someone “may be that guy from north part of the country”. Then that person says to another person “He is from north division”, then that person says to another person “He is from north division like Rangpur”. Then that guy says to another guy “he is from Rangpur”. But reality is that he may not be from Rangpur. But the sentence is changed while it is transmitting. 

• We like negative things more than positive things. When we read news paper, most of us are greatly attracted on negative news rather than positive news. Negativity is like a poison which affects very quickly. In the same time, positivity is like medicine which takes time to work but it works for sure.

Seriously our society is facing epic rumor now. I know it is just a rumor but people are spreading it rather than using logic. As much as I try to clarify about the rumors, people show me different logics and stories. It is also a proof that negativity spreads much faster than positivity.

Saturday, July 21, 2019 (Probably Last Class Presentatiion of MBA life)

It's probably the last class-presentation of my MBA life. There were several presentations in which participated during last 3 years.

Every time I participated in a new group. Because I took courses with new batches. There were various problems that I faced due to changing group frequently. I need a long time to adjust with a group of people. For me, nothing is worst and nothing is useless. everything is useful if the thing is used in an effective way. The situation taught me how to survive when time was not favorable.

Similarly, I believe that the bad phase of life is the most amazing moments. Because we don't have fear to loose anything. The next will be definitely better for us at that moment.

I have changed my way to see the world right now. Once I was strict about my philosophy. But now I know world is like the way. In fact, most of the things are illusion. I am quite open minded person and try to understand every's way of thinking.

But it was quite interesting fact for me to attend a new class with new people. I took courses with 10 (origin), 11, 12, 14 and 15 batches. As a result, many persons from different batches know me.

Monday, July 01, 2019 (Short temper)

Drop by drop water creates an ocean after a course of time.

There are 2 types of people existing in the world.

First one is the person who becomes angry quickly and reacts as soon as possible. People call them short temper. Basically people try to avoid any debate or unfavorable saying with them because they may brawl on them. The reasons behind short temper are many including power, position, environment, stress, personality, financial problems, level of education, eating habit and more on. Infact, I have to read a book about short temper to better understand the topic ;). Short temper persons don’t think too much but they need scope to temp. There is a weakness of having it that the person releases all his emotions with his words. That means that his anger becomes low even zero after releasing it. They don’t remember anything about their angriness.

Second one is the person who becomes angry but don’t react very soon. They think and rethink before reacting in an incident. Sometimes they become very angry without any reaction. Basically they consider two things. At first, it is not right time to react. They seek right opportunity to give the proper answer. Secondly, they are inspired by those. They remember those things and take effective measures to avoid future incidents. They will react on right time with right sample.

Basically I respect both of them. Our society has both personalities. But number of short tempers has much more higher than number of cool tempered persons. Everyone tries to make debate for almost everything without using logic. When I use logic, they indicate social norms. When I point out specific social norm, they start talking about other subjects.

I am the second one who becomes angry but don’t react immediately. I remember everything to give an answer on right time with right manner. People think that I don’t understand anything because I don’t react.